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So.. if I was madly in love with a guy... and that guy started dating one of my close friends... I'd want to know... but after I found out, I'd want to react... and my reaction I wouldn't want the guy I was madly in love with to see.
Did we all follow that?
So I finally decided that I'd tell ID over the phone.
I was going to meet up with him, but I didn't want to tell him, and then sit there and watch him react to it. I didn't think he'd want me sitting there either.
So I told NG that I was going to tell Nate that I was going on a date with NG tonight.
Even though I wasn't planning on seeing NG.
NG was ok with that plan because he was staying in anyways.
So I tried calling ID.
No answer.
A few moments later, I get a text message from ID, and he says, "Working late, but as soon as I'm done here lets go for a beer."
Now I was stuck.
Do I tell him over text or do I call him after he gets off work?
I went for the text, because it was even more of a way of telling him without him having to hold in a reaction.
I wrote back, "I can't tonight I'm sorry."
Him: "Why what are you going to do?"
FN was sitting there when I got that text message, and he said I should write: "I'm going to do a very hot man who's been a bad boy."
I thought I'd share that, cause I laughed pretty hard.
I wrote back: "I'm going on a date with NG tonight."
There was a 15 minute pause.
Then..
"Oh."
I decided to leave it alone for awhile, and let ID get over it.
FN agreed that, that, is what I should do.
So we will see.
Did we all follow that?
So I finally decided that I'd tell ID over the phone.
I was going to meet up with him, but I didn't want to tell him, and then sit there and watch him react to it. I didn't think he'd want me sitting there either.
So I told NG that I was going to tell Nate that I was going on a date with NG tonight.
Even though I wasn't planning on seeing NG.
NG was ok with that plan because he was staying in anyways.
So I tried calling ID.
No answer.
A few moments later, I get a text message from ID, and he says, "Working late, but as soon as I'm done here lets go for a beer."
Now I was stuck.
Do I tell him over text or do I call him after he gets off work?
I went for the text, because it was even more of a way of telling him without him having to hold in a reaction.
I wrote back, "I can't tonight I'm sorry."
Him: "Why what are you going to do?"
FN was sitting there when I got that text message, and he said I should write: "I'm going to do a very hot man who's been a bad boy."
I thought I'd share that, cause I laughed pretty hard.
I wrote back: "I'm going on a date with NG tonight."
There was a 15 minute pause.
Then..
"Oh."
I decided to leave it alone for awhile, and let ID get over it.
FN agreed that, that, is what I should do.
So we will see.
posted by Sipwine at 10:23 AM
7 Comments:
"I'm going to do a very hot man who's been a bad boy."
Have fun. LOL!
well, at least it's out there now....
he'll move on.
I would have to agree with you about not wanting to see his reaction... Good on you for telling him Sipper.
Texting was the perfect way to do this! It's not like you were breaking up with him, anyway - you shouldn't have to deal with his reaction.
I'm glad he knows... keep us posted!
I bet that was cathartic, just lifting a huge weight off your shoulders and you don't have to hide it anymore. Good for you.
Lenfer: ;) I always do.
DC: Yea, I'm hoping he picks up the pace with the "moving on" part
Scotty: Thanks Scotty ;)
James: WHOOHOO! Yea, it still made me nervous telling him via text, but at least I didn't have to deal with him afterwards.
Dylan: Next post, posted. :)
BK: It was actually. I got rid of that problem and I think I made NG happy in the process.
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